Perhaps the most important secret of this list is to be happy. Developing this energy of openness will help you facilitate iterations that may lead to lasting relationships. Even if that person is not to be the love of your life, practice openness anyway. If someone next to you in the coffee line strikes up a conversation, be willing to engage. If your desire is to meet someone new, then you must be willing to connect and open up with the people around you. Understand that a soul mate is nice to have, but not a must-have. You will attract someone who recognizes, appreciates, and loves who you are.įoster this confidence by knowing that you are whole and complete just by being you. If you are being your authentic, best self, this confidence will radiate from you in a glow of self-worth. Be confident in yourself, your decisions, and your ability to attract love into your life. You wouldn't look for a lethargic, gluttonous, stingy complainer with ketchup stains on their shirt, so identify ways to clean up your own act first.ĭo you want to spend your days with a healthy person who takes care of their body? Then lace up those sneakers and get to the gym yourself! Do you want to surround yourself with a person who sees the best in people and situations? Then stop complaining! Do you want to find someone who strives to live each day with grace, joy, purpose. Though opposites can attract, you must first understand that 'like attracts like.' You set the caliber for the individual you want to spend your life with. Get to know yourself, love yourself, and learn to act and speak authentically. If you shift your personality, passions, or purpose to appease another person, you are not being your true self.

What really makes you happy? What do you really want out of life? It’s easy to get caught in a pattern of pleasing others, and doing what seems popular or 'normal' at the time. Be real with yourself, so you are ready for someone else's authenticity. If you want someone to love you through your moments of imperfection, you must first be willing to do that for someone else.

To find real love, you must first emphasize your true self.

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